Dating and the search for love is such a gamble. Even if you don’t like games, you still have to play to win at love. Follow along for dating handicapping tips to maximize in your search for a relationship.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Dating Handicapping Tip #8: Determining Class

There are many who define class as sophistication. Personally, when anyone uses "Classy" as way to describe someone's sophistication, I think the opposite. Processed cheese ball and wine from a box anyone?

In the method of handicapping, class would indicate "type." Sadly as it is, there is quite a lot of stereotyping in dating. However, most dating advice would advise betting against your type. And therefore in dating handicapping, class should be calculated at a low percentage. In other words don't gamble too much on a person’s class/type.

But regardless of impact of one's class, here are some class definitions for men and women for you to consider as they are easily identifiable by their mannerisms and appearance:

For Men:

Hot Chicks - These girls always have their game on and can be depended on for the easy score.

Nice Girls - A good bet if looking to settle down. But wouldn't try for an easy score, you may have company with the numerous stuffed animals on her bed. She likes to cuddle.

Domestic Divas – This class is similar to the nice girls, but they specialize in all things domestic – cooking, cleaning and child-rearing. If you’re a mama’s boy, looking for someone to mother you; this is a very good choice.

Tomboys - or often times considered "one of the guys." This bet is often overlooked because they don’t cater to a need or desire. They are for the most part independent and motivated by other things than a man’s attention. However, many have what it takes a great mate.

Bitches - It would surprise woman how many men bet on this type. My theory, deep inside men don't want to work at relationships so they will take a controlling woman to handle it all. If a man can endure it, go for it.

For Women:

Rich Fellas -Unfortunately for many women the way to our heart is in your wallet. Sorry most women are not that interested in the other thing you have in your pants. We only say that to get into your wallet.

Jocks - Women like jocks when their young. Old jocks are rather sad when they have nothing else to offer. Ladies play'em until the belly rolls in.

Nice guys – A solid match for the girls who want a family. Although you may have to forego the romancing and hot sex you’d experience from other classes.

Valentino - The suave lover type – bet on for a good time. Don't expect more.

Bad Asses - a challenging gamble for all women who think they can change or save a guy. Good Luck.

Before some you become turned off by the blatant stereotyping, consider honestly not only your methodology of dating, but yourself. What you are selling is what someone is buying. If you’re selling yourself as a hot chick, guys won't date you because you're a nice girl. And guys if she thinks you're a nice guy she may not romance you like a Valentino. Understanding who you are and what you are looking for gives you a distinct advantage in the odds. It will also give some understanding the type of person you are attracting.

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