Dating Handicapping Tip: Handling Spectators

At every sporting event you can hear the roar of the crowds whether cheers or jeers and many times it is both. All fans enter the arena anticipating or hoping for a desired outcome - a win.

The spectators in dating would be society. Society sets the rules and expectations. The prying of society watches and rates nearly every relationship. Society wagers which couples will divorce and which ones will last. Society will dictate how we play the game (date) and who we date. Society judges what we wear on dates and our physical condition.

Often times as fans at a sporting event came influence the outcome, so can society influence relationships. Society will set upon undo pressures on relationships that don’t follow by the normal rules. So who do you succeed when society seems to be betting against you?

Race horses wear blinders to hinder rear and sometimes side vision to focus on the finish line. Athletes too learn to shut out crowd noise in order to achieve their goals. The better an athlete is able to shut out the crowd the better his/her chances are of winning. Like a champion athlete, to achieve your winning relationship you need to learn how to shut out society and its demands.